Test Anxiety: 5 Ways School Counselors Can Help

Testing season can cause anxiety and frustration for students and teachers alike. As school counselors, we have the unique ability to help prepare our students for test success in a multitude of ways. In addition to helping reinforce test-taking skills, we can teach students how to handle and cope with the big emotions that often accompany testing season. Below are five ways school counselors can help set their students up for test-taking success.

Classroom Guidance Lessons

School counselors can use part of the time they are in classrooms to focus on helping students to build strong test-taking skills. We can help reiterate test-taking strategies that teachers expect their students to use and help to fill in the gaps in understanding. I love using part of my guidance lessons to help to reinforce the strategies. By using the same language and exposing students to the same skills, we can help ingrain the strategies in their minds.

I speak with the teachers ahead of time to find out which strategies they would like me to cover in my classroom guidance lessons. After that, I tailor my lesson to mirror those strategies. During my lessons, I challenge students to complete “Mission: Test Taking Success”. I turn teaching test-taking skills into an interactive activity, allowing students to learn skills while they have fun completing craftivities.

5 strategies to help prepare your students for test taking success. Classroom lessons, calm down strategies and a culture of calm help create test success.

Calm Down Strategies and Coping Skills

When thinking about test-taking success, it is important to find ways to help students combat the worries that surround test-taking. To help reduce and ease worries, I like to expose students to a variety of tools and strategies they can use to calm their worries in whichever way works best for them. I like to teach students how to use a stress ball, take advantage of calm-down corners or zen zones, and use calming techniques they can do from their seats during the test, such as deep breathing or visualization.

My favorite from-their-seat calm-down strategy to teach is muscle relaxation. I teach students to tighten and loosen their worries away. We start with our fists. We clench our fists as tightly as we can under our desks; we focus on squeezing all the worries into that one spot. Once all the worries are in our fists, we simply let them go. We then do the same with our arms, squeezing all our worries into them and letting them go. Next are the shoulders and so on.

Create a Positive Environment

A positive school culture fosters a calm environment for students. This calmness will naturally help reduce stress levels, allowing students to think more clearly and perform at their full potential. Therefore, maintaining that sense of calm is especially important during testing season to help reduce test anxiety. Creating a culture of calm or a culture of kindness has positive benefits year-round, not just testing season.

Self-Esteem Builders

As school counselors, we should teach students how to motivate themselves and to be confident in their abilities. One way to create confidence is with positive self-talk. Positive self-talk is an amazing tool that allows students to take charge of their thinking and helps build a growth mindset.

One of my favorite sayings is, “Whether you think you can, or think you can’t, you’re right.” During testing season, the pressure and stress start to cause students to doubt themselves. It is of paramount importance that we teach students how to speak kindly to themselves to create that mindset for success.

5 strategies to help prepare your students for test taking success. Classroom lessons, calm down strategies and a culture of calm help create test success.

Along with positive self-talk, self-esteem builders can do wonders for a student, setting them up for test-taking success. Having students write daily affirmations and leave themselves notes of encouragement will help boost their confidence and ease their worries.

Books about Test Anxiety

Books with relatable characters or problems are an amazing tool for helping students deal with stress and anxiety. Stories allow students to process their own feelings through the lens of a character. It is easier for children to cope with their own stress if they can brainstorm how someone else should handle the situation. My favorite books to help students deal with worry and set themselves up for test-taking success are:

Testing Miss Malarkey by Judy Finchler and Kevin O’Malley

The Anti-Test Anxiety Society by Julia Cook

The Big Test by Julia Danneberg

First Grade Takes a Test by Miriam Cohen


What do you do to support students during Testing?

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Last updated: 08/07/2026

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